Melissa McEwan|
Shakesville creates a locus discussing the issue of body image. First she links to
this post (one she made earlier) which directly illustrates how much the images of models in magazines are altered. It is, even knowing it happens, disturbing to see. The effect of the way this society presents and speaks to women is put succinctly by
Sarah in Chicago|
kiwi_grrl thus:
"Or, in other words, if you’re happy with your body; you’re not a normal woman in our society." Then there's
the case of the cissexual woman thrown out of a restaurant bathroom on suspicion of being a man. Tough price to pay for not meeting societal expectations of feminine presentation, no? Reportedly, they actually had the gall to do this while flying a rainbow flag on the day of a pride event. Unisex toilets are sounding better and better all the time*.
(I think, by the way, I disagree with part of Holly's post at Feministe. I don't think they were looking for ground to argue if she turned out to be trans*. I think they were hoping she is
not because then they could argue she is not protect under the law from discrimination on the basis of gender presentation, as absurd as that sounds)
There is still more, though. In a
comment Jeff Fecke|
Moderate Left (and suspended left at this moment) brings up something that has troubled me off and on for years now. That is, how does one protect children from being brainwashed into believing these things? Sure, there is the possibility of limiting their exposure but I suspect this would merely have the effect of making them less able to see through marketing techniques when they finally are exposed. On the other hand, when is the right time to talk about the dishonesty/manipulative techniques of the media? How? And what does one do in the meanwhile?
Then there is Dr Loveless'
comment which puts me in mind of yet
another question I sometimes contemplate without any resolution. That is, what behaviours/situations do we participate in and/or perpetuate without realising but which will in future be rightly looked back upon as 'barbaric'? What wrongs are we so immersed in that we do not even realise it? Self-promotionally speaking, it occurs to me that my story
Sparkle presents one possible answer to this question. If anyone has others I'd like to see them. (The Brynn whose comment follows, btw, is not
this Brynn so far as I can tell)
Bouncing back to the linked Feministe post,
Chaz|
Afroacademic posted a comment which rings very true for me:
"Sometimes when I forget that I’m living in a world with the history that ours has I can’t understand why people are so hung up on gender or how other people “identify.”"
*Holly's post reminds me I may not have thought this all the way through - although as a mid-term goal at the very latest I still see it as desirable