Travelling by train to an excursion several weeks ago, I was asked by classmates about my plans for the next few years (relevant to an assignment). When I told them I saw myself in the United States, Canada or the UK in four years time, it felt as though I was jumped on with requests for explanation.
Really, in what world does a desire to travel/live overseas for an indefinite extended period mean "Don't you like it here?" is a sensible question. Okay, okay, I can see some logic to that question but it still annoys me to be expected to explain myself as if it is somehow bizarre to want to leave the country.
I don't hate it here but I have always wanted to travel and see other places *resists temptation to segue into Star Trek opening monologue*.
Oh, and I am annoyed with myself for being tongue-tied as always in my defence and for keeping silent on the most important reason for those particular in that particular time frame to avoid further judgement.
Really, in what world does a desire to travel/live overseas for an indefinite extended period mean "Don't you like it here?" is a sensible question. Okay, okay, I can see some logic to that question but it still annoys me to be expected to explain myself as if it is somehow bizarre to want to leave the country.
I don't hate it here but I have always wanted to travel and see other places *resists temptation to segue into Star Trek opening monologue*.
Oh, and I am annoyed with myself for being tongue-tied as always in my defence and for keeping silent on the most important reason for those particular in that particular time frame to avoid further judgement.
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Date: 2007-11-09 01:08 (UTC)From:Angrily, it got upgraded to "Hell no."
Eventually, this gave way to an explanation about more of who I am and why I don't like the general social climate, but...bleah. I think I'm going to return to "No." and move the reasonable explanation to the second step. ;)